Anticipatory Grief is Real
Grief following death is anticipated and accepted, and closure is possible eventually as we deal with our loss. However, there is another form of grief, that we call “anticipatory grief”, when our loved one is still with us, but slowly declining before our eyes because of dementia.
Families with loved ones who have dementia have unique situations, but all experience this kind of pre-death grief – grieving a person while they are still physically present. We call this Dementia Grief. Our support group provides a safe and confidential environment for those who are dealing with Dementia Grief and a place to share the “bad” days and the “good” days with others.
Join us for this free-of charge, local support group for families dealing with dementia. Topics include:
- Experiencing Dementia Grief
- Why It is Called “Pre-death” Grief
- How Do We Deal with Dementia “Ambiguity”
- Dealing with the Loss of Connection
- When the Child Becomes the Parent
- Reframing Our Language of Love
Find A Dementia Support Group Near You
Long Term Care Services of Ventura County, Inc. provides two support group options for individuals affected by dementia.
- West Valley Meeting: Typically held every other Thursday from 1:00 PM to 2:30 PM at the Long Term Care Services of Ventura County offices in Ventura, CA.
- East Valley Meeting: Usually meets on the first and third Wednesdays of each month from 1:00 to 2:30 pm at the Goebel Adult Center in Thousand Oaks, CA.
For addresses and the latest updates, visit the Dementia Grief Support Workgroup Schedules
These meetings offer a compassionate space to share experiences and gain support.
Dementia Support Group Registration Form
Please complete the form below. If you have any questions, please contact the Long Term Care Services of Ventura County at dementia-support@ombudsmanventura.org or call (805) 656-1986.
